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Upcoming San Diego Area Workshop
December 2nd

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Upcoming San Francisco Bay Area Workshop
January 6th and 7th, 2018

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 Mental & Emotional Development:
A Permanent Cure for the Neurotic
Sources of Human Unhappiness

With normal training, we automatically pursue external purposes—like our desire to acquire success, security, entertainment and approval.  In fact, we need some success and security for survival, and we want entertainment and approval to create pleasantness and comfort.

In pursuing external needs and desires, we  rarely learn how to understand and master our internal needs, so even if we are externally successful, our unfed internal needs create chronic anxiety or discontent—i.e. neurotic unhappiness.

Lasting happiness requires the internal development of our minds and emotions. This development occurs only if we acquire the information and skills necessary to understand and master both internal and external needs and potentials.

Mastering every need and potential provides the complete satisfaction and meaning critical to being content in our Personal and Work lives, and competent to create intimate Relationships.

CMED training provides the clear definitions, precise insights, and specific skills everyone needs to create conscious fulfillment and lasting happiness in each category of life: our Personal lives, intimate Relationships, and Profession—as well as the Internal and External in each category.

Lasting happiness thru internal development is critical—not just for everyone’s personal well-being, but for the evolution and survival of our species.  These two noble needs make it vitally important to fulfill all our human potentials.


CMED Training

Individual Sessions

Individual sessions provide personal training perfectly tailored for each person’s unique needs and circumstances.  To schedule an office or phone appointment, please contact me at the email address or phone number below.

Ongoing Workshops

Workshops offer a group experience with time to absorb more information, and an opportunity to share learning and life with other people.

Books & Videos

Books, videos, and workshop schedules are found on this website. The books, videos, workshops and individual sessions provide the critical tools necessary to understand and master both internal and external needs and potentials.

CMED training provides the education everyone needs—but in normal life, no one receives.

For More Information: 

Email: drpaulh@paulhatherley.com
Phone: 619-588-9166


Who Can Benefit From CMED Education?

Individuals & Couples:  In normal life, we are not taught how to fulfill ourselves.  Instead, we choose a mate hoping he/she will compensate for our inability to make ourselves happy.

With CMED training, we first master our own needs and potentials—then we learn to give energy, interest, and attention with the conscious purpose of first understanding, and then nurturing our mate.

Next, we adopt a purpose to grow in understanding life, mate, and ourselves. Finally, we learn to share reality, personal conversation, conscious touch, and quintessential moments.

Parents & Teachers:  Educating children is often limited to teaching right from wrong, to obey authority, to learn how to read, write and do arithmetic, and if lucky, appreciate the arts. There is no education for internal development.

CMED offers parents and teachers the information they need to help children develop self-worth, emotional safety, and self-awareness—as well as learn how to explore any topic, discover what is true, and provide what is needed.

Thru this process, parents and teachers teach children the layers of developmental tasks necessary to master internal needs and potentials.

Mental Health Professionals:  Modern psychotherapy does not even pretend to teach us how to complete our developmental tasks, or master our internal needs and potentials.

While psychotherapy can help us feel better, it does not provide the objective internal competence we need.  With CMED training, therapists acquire the skills and awareness necessary to provide measurable internal growth.