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CMED Education Provides–

The Internal Growth Necessary to Create:

  1. Lasting Personal Happiness 
  2. Emotionally Bonded Intimate Relationships
  3. Meaningful Work

A normal education teaches us to pursue the external goals of success, security, & approval; but we are not taught how to feed our internal needs for self-worth, emotional warmth, personal conversation, truth, beauty, emotional bonds, and meaningful work.

Nor are we taught how to fulfill our internal potentials to understand, care, master, create, and contribute.

CMED education provides the objective information and specific skills required to feed and fulfill all our internal needs and potentials.

Since normal education only acknowledges external goals—we never learn how to create lasting personal happiness, build emotional bonds, or make our work meaningful.

This normal lack of internal education is critical because we need to master external needs and potentials for material comfort and security—but we need to master internal needs and potentials to create real happiness and fulfillment.

With CMED training, we learn how to master our internal need to express love, pursue truth, experience beauty, and develop wisdom.

Benjamin Franklin noted that human life is improved one small step at a time—not big leaps. CMED education provides an objective step-by-step process to create fulfillment in our personal lives, intimate relationships, and at work.


CMED Training

Individual Sessions

Individual sessions provide personal training perfectly tailored for each person’s unique needs and circumstances.  To schedule an office or phone appointment, please contact me at the email address or phone number below.

Ongoing Workshops

Workshops offer a group experience with time to absorb more information, and an opportunity to share learning and life with other people.

Books & Videos

Books, videos, and workshop schedules are found on this website. The books, videos, workshops and individual sessions provide the critical tools necessary to understand and master both internal and external needs and potentials.

CMED training provides the education everyone needs—but in normal life, no one receives.

For More Information: 

Email: drpaulh@paulhatherley.com
Phone: 619-588-9166


Who Can Benefit From CMED Education?

Individuals & Couples:  In normal life, we are not taught how to fulfill ourselves.  Instead, we choose a mate hoping he/she will compensate for our inability to make ourselves happy.

With CMED training, we first master our own needs and potentials—then we learn to give energy, interest, and attention with the conscious purpose of first understanding, and then nurturing our mate.

Next, we adopt a purpose to grow in understanding life, mate, and ourselves. Finally, we learn to share reality, personal conversation, conscious touch, and quintessential moments.

Parents & Teachers:  Educating children is often limited to teaching right from wrong, to obey authority, to learn how to read, write and do arithmetic, and if lucky, appreciate the arts. There is no education for internal development.

CMED offers parents and teachers the information they need to help children develop self-worth, emotional safety, and self-awareness—as well as learn how to explore any topic, discover what is true, and provide what is needed.

Thru this process, parents and teachers teach children the layers of developmental tasks necessary to master internal needs and potentials.

Mental Health Professionals:  Modern psychotherapy does not even pretend to teach us how to complete our developmental tasks, or master our internal needs and potentials.

While psychotherapy can help us feel better, it does not provide the objective internal competence we need.  With CMED training, therapists acquire the skills and awareness necessary to provide measurable internal growth.